By: Hollow Tip (@hollowtiptalks)
I apologize in advance for the tone of this blog, but I am feeling a little irritated. Recently there has been a call to change regarding various industries. For the moment, the spotlight has been placed on Hollywood, but once the details are discussed, people start to realize that this is prevalent in “everyday life” as well. #MeToo has taken over and caused a number of women to band together in sisterhood with hopes of taking down the big bad wolf. While the previous statement has a hint of sarcasm within it, I want to be sure to state that I do not take this movement lightly. Judging from the influx of stories it appears as though this has been going on for some time now, with the notion of “boy will be boys." What is failing to be discussed are the “yes men & women” that allowed this to continue at the expense of numerous victims. Nevertheless, the point of this blog is not to discuss the specifics of the movement, but to shed light on the snowball effect it is having on everyday life. 
Correct me if I am wrong, but the objective of the #MeToo movement appeared to be unity & the idea that women now have the power to speak up. Unfortunately, this movement has been completely contradicted by the other downside of our society: “Softness” or as some adults may know it “B***A**ness”. Prior to the presence of the #MeToo movement, there was an epidemic of bullying involved in schools across America. This issue sparked a number of parents to voice their opinion regarding school’s involvement and prevention tactics. While one cannot argue that this was totally necessary (especially considering the evidence of adolescent suicides). A longer brainstorming session needs to take place in terms of identifying a solution. “You need to do something!” “We need to do something, it takes a village!” “It starts at home!” are all statements that are predisposed to arrive in this situation.
Well, a Utah school believes they have the answer. Their solution does not involve education on bullying, class retreats hoping to bring various students together, tighter supervision or disciplinary action. According to this school, all of this can be resolved by removing the word “No”.
Allow me to elaborate, a Utah school is stripping girls of their personal right to say “No” when asked to dance at a school dance. Doing so will ensure that feelings aren’t hurt, while also promoting kindness. In reality, this is promoting much more including a massive invitation list to the world’s largest pity party.
The fear of rejection is to blame for all that is wrong in the world or school system so let’s make sure that everyone gets to shake their a** on the dancefloor. Give me a freaking break!! When I heard this story I was beyond irritated. This irritation stems from the fact that we have evolved into a culture that is so soft, sensitive and politically correct that they are willing to deprive girls of their personal right to say “No," while also disputing the entire premise of the #MeToo movement by giving young men the idea that women are not allowed to say “No” when you make a request. In all honesty, the “question” is merely a courtesy in this situation due to the fact that the answer is pre-determined. What lesson are we wanting to teach here?
When I was a child, there were plenty of situations where one could stand the risk of hearing “No” from the opposite sex. While one’s feelings/ego may be bruised, you grow to learn a powerful lesson regarding self-love, acceptance & personal deal breakers. In addition, you learn to appreciate the beauty of receiving a genuine “Yes” in the future. This school has it all wrong. Whatever will they do when these kids graduate/ transfer and enter a school with a different policy. Will they freak out and have an enormous temper tantrum because they heard the word that must never be spoken from the opposite sex? Or will these girls turn into obedient wives avoiding the forbidden word in fear of punishment?
Overall, considering the inception of participation trophies and the policy that everyone receives a valentine. I should not be shocked that we have come to this. We have had years of coddling and grooming our younger generation into socially awkward individuals who need to receive an incentive to complete basic functions. So let’s just add this to the list of existing modified lessons hoping to make life easier for those in power.
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